Sperry & McHoul Funeral Home Obituaries

Thomas J. Kirby, Jr. 03/07/2020

Thomas James Kirby, Jr.

November 24, 1923 - March 7, 2020

Thomas James Kirby, Jr., 96, (Bourne), passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family on Saturday, March 7, 2020 at JML Care Center in Falmouth, MA. He was the beloved husband of the late Patricia Bemis Kirby, who died on November 26, 2009.

Gracious and kind to all, Tom Kirby showed a genuine interest in others, and above all else deeply loved family, friends, God and country. Semper Fi.

Tom was the loving and beloved father of three daughters “Cindy, Vicki and Cathy”: Cynthia West and her husband, John of Mashpee, MA, Virginia Boyle and her husband, Kenneth of Bristol, RI and Catherine Kirby of Gloucester, MA. He was the adoring grandfather of Alex West, Kimberly Colucci (and her husband Steve), Ryan O’Connell (and his wife Tyler), and Cordelia Boyle. He was also the proud great-grandfather of Preston and Thomas Colucci. Tom was predeceased by his granddaughter Caitlin O’Connell.

The son of Laura and Thomas Kirby Sr., Tom was born in Conimicut, RI and grew up in Attleboro, MA. The eldest of seven, he was predeceased by brothers Lauren, Gordon and Russell, and sisters Irene and Marie. He is survived by his sister Gladys Brander of Attleboro and many beloved nieces and nephews.

Tom earned a Bachelor’s Degree from Fitchburg State College and a Master’s Degree from Bridgewater State College in Education. He taught Industrial Arts in Attleboro and Foxboro and became the Assistant Superintendent for Attleboro Public Schools. Later, Tom and Pat taught at Cairo American College in Egypt.

As a Staff Sergeant in the Marine Corps during WWII, Tom served his country as a gunner in a dive-bomber in the VMSB-333 squadron. Called back to active duty in the Korean War, he became a Master Sergeant and then was promoted to Technical Sergeant.

Pat and Tom raised their daughters in Attleboro, retired to Falmouth, and then moved to Mashpee. They spent many years wintering in Live Oak R.V. Resort in Arcadia, FL playing golf and making lifelong friends. Tom spent his remaining years at Cape Cod Senior Residence in Pocasset, MA.

Tom was a proud member of the Waquoit Congregational Church in East Falmouth and the Second Congregational Church in Attleboro where he served as both moderator and deacon.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

 In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Waquoit church.

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